deep thought...
there's something which i have been thinking for quite a while... when ppl are bz and occupied with something, do they realise that they will tend to put all their attention to that thing and forget bout the rest.. it's like when exam is around the corner or a competition is coming up, there are practically nothing else in their mind but onli the exam or the competition... maybe this is how human works... this is how nature created us this way so that we can put full attention into it... with this perhaps, we can perform better in that particular thing...but do we realise that while we r bz preparing and getting involve in the activity, we tend to leave other things aside?? and one thing that we alwiz leave aside and take it for granted is the relationships with the people around us... our family, our loved ones, our friends, or even the lady working in the library...
when we r so indulge into the thing we r doin, we tend to communicate less with the people around us... even when they r trying to talk to us also we will juz answer back in 1 or 2 sentences and hope that the conversation will end... wouldn't this leave a very bad impression on them?? wouldn't they be tired of our attitude one day and got fed up of us?? but usually those ppl care for us n understand our condition.. they will forgive us after a while... but wat if this thing doesn't happen onli once in a while?? wat if it happens so often that those ppl that we care about finally could not take it anymore?? wat will be the consequences that time??
truthfully, it is never a nice feeling to be neglected by others... when someone make u feel as though they don care about u anymore or u r not that important, it feels rily bad... it feels as though there are no more light out there... it feels so heavy right there in ur heart... its feels negative... but well its happens all the time.. n i might also be one of them who neglect others....
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