requests....
wah... it has been so long since i last blogged on this page... my new semester has juz started and has been quite bz with school work plus extra curricular activities... there's like super big events coming up real soon and exams r alwiz around the corner... sounds so scary...
so wat i'm blogging now?? got no idea man... juz feel like crapping something here to keep this goin... hehe... ok lets see....
when someone requests u to do something its rily hard to push the request away unless u hav a strong reason... wat more if that some one that u r close wif?? it'll be hundred times harder to turn down the request... so the best solution here is to fulfill the request wif all ur might rite?? this is of course when the situation allowed la...
well if things can be so easy n ideal then there'll be far less talking behind the back and arguing in this world... u see... wat if u rily hate the person n u juz don feel like helping?? or u dowan to fulfil the request coz its against ur principle n will?? n in the same time u cant rily come to a compromise that'll benefit both party?? so wat is the best soultion?? (keep in mind that the person may be very close to u) i cant rily come up wif an answer myself...
oh ya... my blog seems to be abit complicated sometimes... juz don think so much about it... i'm juz crapping things... n its getting rily late or should i say early?? need to sleep....zzzzzzz
relationship....
relationship is definitely a very hard thing to handle... n i'm not onli talking about guy-gal relationship... even a frens relationship, bro-sis relationship, parents-children relationship, n many more other relationships... they have their very own challenges... n since human is a socialising creature, we, as human, cant avoid all this matter...but instead, we need to face it n deal wif it...
when a guy n a gal couple up together, everything seems to be vey nice and sweet.. but actually there r like tons of challenges to be dealt with... n when the relationship becomes a long distance one, troubles seems to set in... loneliness, jealousy, betrayal, etc come into the picture and all the lovey dovey thing that occur before that will juz "poof" disappear... although it's not gonna be easy, but a LDR can actually still work out... n in my part, i'm gonna look at things more positively with the hope that LDR is not equal to break up... i believe that LDR can still work out with many dif factors involved...
a guy gal relationship also involves many clashes in opinions and likings.. this goes with the other relationships too... when this happen, arguments and not agreeing with another party causes a very huge weak link in the relationship... n how the parties involved in solving the problem will play a big role in mainatining the relationship... so, if no effort is put in to fix the weakness, then it'll eventually break n there goes the relationship...
frenship also smells a lot of challenges inside... n it is neva easy to deal with this... but "there's a will, there's a way"... n i believe that this phrase can not onli motivate ppl to work hard to achieve an ambition, it can also help in maintaining a frenship n relationship...
on a brighter note, having positive relationships is perhaps the best thing that occur to someone... it is definitely better than not having any relationship at all.. loneliness can kill!! n human cant survive by himself... human need companion... thats y do not give up on any relationship that easily... appreciate it... try look at the good things n don alwiz look at the bad things...
n to all my frens, my bro, my parents, my schoolmates, my classmates, my acquaintence n even to all those ppl whom i encounter everyday, thanx alot for playing such a huge role in my life... n especially to my gf, thanx alot for making my life richer and more wonderful than ever... i love u...
